“I need to meet with you and the guys from our Bible study today” my friend urgently said on the phone. Tears streamed down his cheeks as my friend told the four of us how he started using cocaine, again. After six months in a rehab facility and more than a year of sobriety after that, he was back on drugs.
The tears continued to drip as he told us how it all happened. It started with stress as he approached his wedding day. He started drinking alcohol to help him relax. Then a coworker offered him marijuana and he accepted. He progressed to stealing and selling his wife’s beloved family heirlooms in order to get money needed for cocaine highs. Eventually his wife noticed items missing in their house and confronted him.
All of this was occurring while the four of us met for Bible study each Wednesday. If there was one safe group for him to have shared his struggles, it would have been with us. But he didn’t. He hid his struggles from his family and from the guys he was supposed to share his struggles with when he needed.
Shame, embarrassment, and guilt were already there. He didn’t need any more of that from us. He knew he messed up. He needed assurance we were there for him and he needed a reminder that we are all fighting our own battles.
Paul told the believers living in Corinth, “Therefore, my beloved brethren, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that your toil is not in vain in the Lord” (1 Corinthians 15:58, NASB).[1]
In 1 Corinthians 15 Paul has been talking about the resurrection of believers and our hope for the future. That’s the source of hope for the future and incentive for service in the present. As Paul approaches the end of this glorious chapter on the resurrection he reminds the believers to keep strong in their daily walk with God.
There will be setbacks in our Christian life. We will have times when we struggle with temptation, say the wrong things at the worst time, and fail to follow through on commitments we make to others. But it’s important not to get bogged down with the struggles, but to strive to live faithfully to God and continue in ministry. We can’t earn God’s gift of salvation. But once we accept that gift we don’t sit on it. We actively serve God in ministry.
[1] Scripture taken from the New American Standard Bible, Copyright The Lockman Foundation 1960, 1962, 1963, 1968, 1971, 1972, 1973, 1975, 1977, 1995. Used by permission.